I had a remarkable flying career.
Most people marry a lifestyle, not a person. When that type unwillingly loses their facade, ‘Katy bar the door.’ If the first marriage was for the money and the house, what is surprising that the second one wouldn’t be the same? I had a Flight Instructor who used to say, “If it moved, you touched it.” It was a simple one-liner to instill how a PIC is ultimately responsible. I apply that to my life. When you take responsibility, you turn the shadow of the victim, into the light of the victorious. It helps with anger too, which only hurts us, not who we are angry with. Of course none of it precludes anyone from speaking to whomever they please, especially on birthdays.
